Howdy! Reader,

Let’s talk about something I have continued to face and this isn't the first time (nor will it be the last) time I encounter it... It just seems to be part of the path to our goals: the doubters, the haters, and the ones who laugh at us. You’ve probably felt their words sting, their looks of skepticism, or even their attempts to pull you down.

But here’s the thing: their opinions aren’t the end of the story. In fact, they’re often just part of the process.

First, they ignore you. Then, they laugh at you. Then, they resist you. Finally, they ask how you did it.

Let’s break this down and see how it all plays out.

Last weeks Newsletter can be read here​

🤷🏻‍♂️ Life & Thoughts

If you are new here! HEY HEY!

I am on a journey to build a business that suits my lifestyle (which will continually change) and for now thats a 5-10 year plan to set myself up (and my partner) with some dreams of how we want to live the rest of our lives. (none of this comes overnight).

During this journey I have found in the short moments it is a common thread of

"First, they ignore you. Then, they laugh at you. Then, they resist you. Finally, they ask how you did it."

However even in those small moments, this still applies on the broader scale depending on the perspective and those watching from a far, or behind a screen.

Regardless, the PHASES go like this:

Phase 1: First, They Ignore You

When you start chasing your dreams, most people won’t even notice. (or they don't care)

• You’re quietly putting in the work, showing up every day, but the world doesn’t seem to care yet.
• Key lesson: This is your proving ground. Your consistency, effort, and focus are building the foundation—even if no one’s watching.

Phase 2: Then, They Laugh at You

Once you start making noise, the doubters emerge.

• They’ll mock your dreams. They’ll laugh at your ambition.
• Why? Because they’re stuck in their own fears, and your actions make them uncomfortable. You’re doing what they’re too scared to do.

Reminder: Their laughter isn’t about you—it’s a reflection of their own insecurities. Don’t let it distract you.

Phase 3: Then, They Resist You

As you gain traction, some people will try to stop you.

• They’ll question your intentions, belittle your progress, or even try to discredit you.
• Resistance often comes from fear... fear of change, fear of your success, or fear of being left behind.

Here’s the truth: Resistance is proof that you’re making an impact. Keep going.

Phase 4: Finally, They Ask How You Did It

When your results start to speak for themselves, everything changes.

• The same people who doubted you will begin to admire your resilience.
• The ones who laughed at you will now want your advice.

Why? Because success is undeniable. It silences critics, inspires curiosity, and commands respect.

So what do we take from all this?

Dealing with doubters and haters in the moment isn’t easy. Their words can sting, their negativity can weigh you down. But remember: this is just a phase.

• You’re playing for something bigger. Your goals aren’t about their opinions they’re about your future.
• Results speak louder than words. When you stay consistent, focused, and true to your purpose, the noise will fade.

Here’s the perspective shift: The pain of their doubt is temporary. The satisfaction of proving them wrong and building the life you dream of is permanent.

Why I’m Playing for Something Bigger

I’ve been there (still here actually)... I’ve heard the laughs, felt the resistance, and faced the doubts. And sure, it stings. But I remind myself of this: I’m not doing this for them... I’m doing this for me.

Every step forward, every lesson learned, every bit of progress... it’s all part of building something life-changing. The people who doubted me don’t define me. The work I’m doing today is for the future I’m building, and that’s what matters.

Stay consistent, stay resilient, and let your actions and results do the talking.

Because one day, they won’t be laughing anymore they’ll be asking how you did it.

Let’s keep moving forward together. If this resonates, share it with someone else who might need to hear it.

💰 Business

Just to be clear - I am not here to share with you how to build your business. I am here sharing how I am building mine.

DECEMBER is off to a FLYING start!

Actually we hit a NEW milestone today: 9-Dec-2024

It all seems so surreal! But from the hard work of the team, we have made it possible!

Now to hit $100k in 2025.

Decembers Current Tally: still plenty expenses to come, but it is STARTING strong!

Also, I started a new Business: a Product Listing Service​

Our Product Listing Service ProListAssist will free up your time, allowing you to focus on scaling your business and doing what you love, or to simply buy back time. By outsourcing the tedious task of listing items, you can achieve more by working less.

Content

Latest Content:

Podcast: EP. 191 - Why Not Take The First Step Today? | Further Your Lifestyle Podcast​

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Latest YT Video:

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Closing thoughts

I hope to see you around via my Youtube, my Instagram or maybe even in person!

Thanks!

Chris Furlong // say hello@clfurlong.com

LINKS & AFFILIATES:

AMEX:

I recently got the American Express® Business Platinum Card to ease my cash flow - not saying it’s a must-have, but if you’re considering, definitely worth a peek! (Not financial advice.) If you are curious or looking for one, reach out as I can send you a referral for some bonus points.

PEOPLE:

• Ethan 'Rooshock' aka a wiz bang Accountant! watch this​
• Connect with Ethan and Get a free Reseller Cash Expense tracker here​

📊 Reseller Spreadsheet:

• ​Click here, to see the VIP offer for you as one of my biggest supports.
• Watch the DEMO, live with Ethan Rooshock
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AUSPRINT USB Printer Review: https://youtu.be/wUFJhe12kmE​

I use this printer now EVERYDAY.

Also, I have had more people in the last week ask me what boxes and bags do I use for my Clothing on eBay, so here they are:

• Boxes: https://ebay.us/VhAL1L​
• Bags: https://ebay.us/l6cjH0​

MAGIC MIND - https://www.magicmind.com/clfurlong​

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PREVIOUS READS: First and Latest:

Week 1: https://ckarchive.com/b/lmuehmh9od64​
Week 162: https://artisanal-teacher-7863.ck.page/posts/no-thoughts-just-vibes​
Week 163: https://artisanal-teacher-7863.ck.page/posts/4-years-ago-none-of-this-even-existed-in-my-mind​
Week 164: https://artisanal-teacher-7863.ck.page/posts/blink-and-you-will-miss-it-but-don-t-forget-to-take-action​
Week 165: https://artisanal-teacher-7863.ck.page/posts/when-was-the-last-time-you-did-this​
Week 166: https://artisanal-teacher-7863.ck.page/posts/don-t-forget-to-take-the-time-to-do-this​
Week 167: https://artisanal-teacher-7863.ck.page/posts/i-have-some-questions-for-you
​Week 168: https://artisanal-teacher-7863.ck.page/posts/pause-and-reflect-for-a-moment​
Week 169: https://artisanal-teacher-7863.ck.page/posts/there-will-always-be-resistance-so-embrace-it
​Week 170: https://artisanal-teacher-7863.ck.page/posts/power-is-out-so-i-will-keep-it-short​
Week 171: https://artisanal-teacher-7863.ck.page/posts/get-out-of-your-own-way-seriously​
Week 172: https://artisanal-teacher-7863.ck.page/posts/in-107-days-its-time-for-change​
Week 173: https://artisanal-teacher-7863.ck.page/posts/why-hitting-pause-might-be-your-next-big-win​
Week 174: https://artisanal-teacher-7863.ck.page/posts/what-1-year-can-do-if-you-do-the-work​
Week 175: https://artisanal-teacher-7863.ck.page/posts/this-question-will-change-your-life-can​
Week 176: https://artisanal-teacher-7863.ck.page/posts/the-next-thing-you-know-you-re-at-your-destination​
Week 177: https://artisanal-teacher-7863.ck.page/posts/what-if-this-fails-then-what​
Week 178: https://artisanal-teacher-7863.ck.page/posts/celebrate-the-wins-on-your-journey​
Week 179: https://artisanal-teacher-7863.kit.com/posts/do-you-trust-yourself-enough​
Week 180: https://artisanal-teacher-7863.kit.com/posts/the-journey-gets-harder-before-it-gets-better​
Week 181: https://artisanal-teacher-7863.kit.com/posts/growth-comes-in-many-forms-and-scary-is-one?​
Week 182: https://artisanal-teacher-7863.kit.com/posts/at-what-point-do-we-catch-a-break?​
Week 183: https://artisanal-teacher-7863.kit.com/posts/the-endgame-what-when-how?​

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